If asked to do something, she dawdles/distracts/runs away and/or flat out refuses to do it.
If threatened to do it or she will get disciplined, she bawls. And doesn't do it.
If given an incentive to do something, she doesn't do it and expects the incentive anyway.
If smacked, she bawls and goes to complain to somebody else.
SE: Papaaaa.. Mummy naughty!
Hubby: Why, what happened?
SE: Mummy beat me!
Hubby: Why Mummy beat you
SE: Be-coh... waaa waaaaa... Mummy naughty!
And cuddles up against hubby, glaring daggers at me.
Mummy ih so, so naughty