(Nope hubby doesn't read this blog. Says he doesn't need to as he sees the kids all the time)
This is hubby's style...
When we go to malls, he goes off to check out shops interesting to him, looks at his own stuff. After some time he will remember us and call to ask where we are. Even when together, he has to walk ahead by himself.
Going... (the guy in maroon shirt)
Going...
Almost gone.. no next pic because already GONE :)
At restaurants, he helps himself to piping-hot food while the maid and I busy ourselves with the kids: portioning out food, deboning, cutting, adding gravy etc. Plus feeding the little mouths, getting sharp objects out of little hands etc etc.
When we are on holiday, he would go off by himself. And when not miles away, he has to go off to sit far away.
In a land far far away
But while he won't structure his life around the kids, he does play with them, fetches them around and he WILL do whatever is necessary. Guess that's what's important. And I guess, I might as well accept what I cannot change! (Though of course I keep trying hehe)