Workers

Been a while since the last post since (obviously) I have been busy.

The mode was previously just to survive a month until our helper returned, with cooked food stocked up. . Fending for ourselves knowing she was never returning is a different kettle of fish.  Yes yes I know, first world problems.  :)  Well, we had to adjust.  

The initial focus was on the essentials - cooking, cleaning, laundry.  We are slowly making inroads into other areas like keeping the garden tidy and looking into what the kitchen cupboards hold.

Worker #2 with mop

(Worker #1 chose to sweep the floor and was done)

Aloft Staycation

We didn't go anywhere the first school holidays after hubby's surgery.  These second holidays, we did.  :)  Just a staycation at Aloft in Nu Sentral.  I was apprehensive that at RM500+ a night for bed and breakfast, quality would be low.  Maybe room would be el cheapo?  Maybe breakfast would be simple one only?  

Reached at 4pm, our room wasn't ready.  We left our bags with the hotel and walked over to the nearby mall.  Not too interesting - still, a decent selection of shops.

All raring to eat

The room was nice, 2 double beds for us.  One worry down.

Room, ok

The next morning... breakfast was buffet-style with lots of variety!  Err no pictures because too busy hehe.  So yay, we can totally recommend this hotel!

Our plan was to take MRT to TRX mall since we'd never been there.  But when hubby decided to come along (initally planned to just stay in the room), I changed transport mode to Grab.  No regrets - definitely more convenient and actually cheaper than 4 MRT tickets.

The largest Apple store

MPH still lives!

Artsy

The mall wasn't as high-tech as I'd expected (I had worked at the building some years back before the mall was up, and the lifts/toilets were super advanced even then) but it was nice and there were shops different from the malls we normally frequent.  We had an early dinner then took Grab back to the hotel.  Supper that night rounded up our day.

The next, buffet again for breakfast before checking out.  I'm already thinking of doing this same staycation later in the year and checking out a different mall!  

Hubby's first pick

We continue our weekend routine of going out for lunch.  It had been me, JE and SE taking turns since hubby always says 'up to you' when asked to choose.  Surprise surprise.... now he wants a turn as well.  Asked him about the places he was considering, turned out I liked all of them and so decision was made that he gets a turn now haha.

His maiden pick: Palbok Korean BBQ.

Ball is the soup seasoning - here it's kimchi 

The crew cooks and not us (yay!) 

Dragon belly - how do they cut it like this??

Happy diners

While it isn't a place for frequent visits, we were all pleased with this choice.  Took home the extra kimchi soup, added meat/tofu and it became another meal for us.

Prep frenzy

With our maid Jane not returning, I had to step up.  Hubby was still having mobility and health problems.  The girls were basically not used to chores and would take time to learn. 

That first shell-shocked weekend, I cooked meals.

Pasta lunch

And I prepped for SE's school lunches.

Beans to add to soups and salads

Slow-cooked soups with meat. Carbs and veg to be added 

Meat for salads, stews, sandwiches

I remarked to hubby that after a lot of effort, I hadn't produced many lots of results.

The food for SE is going further than expected though.  Some days there were additions eg extra food from eating out.  I had earlier prepped a few lots of cooked chicken.  SE has lunch at home on Fridays which means one day less a week.

Inspired by the food list idea, I have set up a spreadsheet to track stocks and usage.  Now to do this for a few months until a replacement maid can arrive.

No more Jane

For the first time in the 9 years she worked with us, our helper Jane did something she had not done before... she let me down.  She did not reply my message in the last week of her holiday whether things were going well there.  She did not respond when asked whether she would be able to take the flight back, or needed to postpone, or would not be returning at all.  The day of her flight... yep she did not board the plane.  She informed my sister's helper that she couldn't return - her mother had suddenly fallen ill and there was nobody to take care of her kids.  

I couldn't believe it.  There had been trying times before but she had always found a solution.  

This particular trip had been the most stressful.  She was set on returning home in April so I had bought the plane ticket to Manila.  However her work permit renewal was in 'awaiting approval' for ages.  I kept calling and writing in, MYEG advised me to submit a cancellation.  Which took ages again.  The permit was finally approved after 1.5 months instead of the usual 2 weeks.  Next was the contract which also encountered hiccups - the authorities weren't happy she was renewing so close to her flight date and initially didn't want to approve.  Documents were ready ONE day before her flight!  We were so relieved.  I bought the return ticket from Manila.

And now... I had to cancel all those hard-obtained documents.  Which hadn't come cheap - the contract RM2000, the permit/insurance/medical over RM1000.  I had to make a police report that she had run away and pay a compound of RM750 to cancel her work permit.  

 

Money was one thing.  Of course we had accumulated various things waiting for her to return and handle.  On top of that, my emotions were all over the place.  She had been part of our lives for so long.  She was my main partner/implementer/enforcer when dealing with SE's eating disorder.  Over the years we had spent many hours chatting.  Everywhere I look in our house or apartment, I am reminded that she was the one who organised that area.  I find it hard to accept that we will never see her again.  I am just SO SAD.

Plant arrangement by Jane

Mother's day

A quick post to pre-empt future queries on 'What did we do for Mother's Day ar??'  We had dinner at Pantai Seafood - ordered a set plus additional dishes.  Food was good and no I didn't take any photos after the first dish.  

BIL provided quality service of bringing food to my parents' plates.  

First dish

Definitely ignore the attention-hogger

This time we remembered to take photos of all of us.

The whole family

And one more at the fish tanks.

Happy Mother's day!

Happy Mother's day to my mother, and the next-generation moms!

SE’s birthday

SE is 13! My little one is officially a teenager (but she will always be my little one!).  She chose this 'lemon jasmine' cake from TK bakery - love how classy it looks!  Yummy too. 

I will do a short comparison with her birthday a year ago.  Back then, the eating disorder meant it was difficult for her to eat something like cake.  This year was better although she actually didn't want any either.  Less persuasion was required and she ate a more respectable slice.  The goal is to be able to enjoy things like this at celebrations, doesn't have to be part of a daily diet.

On her actual birthday, went for a nice dinner at a nearby cafe.  

Nice food and nice person :)

Then Japanese food for lunch over the weekend...

My birthday, my choice of food

And of course a picture with family.

One for the album

Happy 13th birthday!  Kiddo is in a much better position now to take on the world.  :)