Saturday, July 22, 2023

Skinny

It was with a shock that I realised SE had lost weight to be point of being skeletal.  People had earlier commented that she has grown thin and I'd attributed it to her growing taller and losing puppy fat.  Then I noticed her bones were jutting out, her clothes were loose.  

See the skinny arm

She has been on a 'watching diet' stage for about half a year.  First she stopped eating snacks - according to JE this was initially to be for a month but was extended.  Then it moved on to her rejecting extra food at mealtimes and not having tea time.  She would announce she was full.  I'd assumed it was a phase that she would grow out of.  Her overall food intake still seemed fine.

When I realised how thin she'd become, the alarm set in that the problem was physical rather than behavioural.  Made an appointment at Avisena Women and Children's specialist hospital.  I picked Doc Koshy since he had evening clinic hours - he seemed more efficient than naturally friendly.  Oh well.  He looked her over and ordered blood tests.  Hmm this would be the first time SE had blood taken.  And this was a kid who ran away during dentist visits and school vaccinations.

Poke poke

Extracting

Poor kiddo.  She was a trooper actually, sat there without fuss throughout the procedure.  2 weeks later we went back for results.  Liver function, kidney function, abnormal cells, even cancer screening (at the request of a paranoid mummy who didn't know this would be expensive) - all were fine.  So now she has a clean bill of health.  

Yet the weighing scales still seem to be showing some decrease.  On to the next phase.... have started her on an egg a day for breakfast, and have ordered Pediasure.  Hopefully these will help arrest the weight loss and move the scales the other direction. 

8 comments:

  1. Why are both my comments missing? Must be inside your SPAM box

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  2. Good that you took her to consult a doctor. Did the doctor gave any advice on how to fatten her up?

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    1. Well doc visit was primarily to check if something is physically wrong. Which hopefully has been cleared up after the tests.

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  3. Just wondering, any reasons why she suddenly doesn't want to eat more? Does she feel that the food doesn't taste good?

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    1. I wonder also. Talking to her isn't very much help. She insists she feels fine, nothing has changed, but we catch her removing food from her plate and putting it back or on someone else's plate.

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    2. Could it be in school some of her friends are talking about being strict what the food to avoid getting fat?

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    3. The paediatrician I went to asked a few questions in that vein - like whether she wants to be thinner than her friends - she shook her head.

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